HELPING TODDLERS COPE WITH ADOPTION ISSUES
On behalf of Victoria S. Linder Law Office posted in Adoptionon Thursday, August 16, 2018.
California parents who welcome children into their family through adoption often encounter numerous challenges along the way. When the children in question are toddlers who have come from troubled environments, it can be quite challenging to overcome adoption issues. During the first weeks or months of living together as a family, there are several ways to help keep stress levels low.
A child who is beyond infancy has already begun to experience a variety of personal emotions in reaction to his or her surroundings and life experiences. However, toddlers do not always have the ability to express their emotions or to fully understand why they feel the way they do. An adoptive parent can provide loving supportby letting an adopted son or daughter know he or she can always come to the parent for a hug, some play time or just to sit quietly together.
Experts advise against punishing adopted children of toddler age by using a timeout system. The risk is that doing so may make the child feel even more isolated than he or she already does. An adopted child who is rebelling or otherwise struggling to cope with new surroundings may need more time with family members, not less.
Some California parents adopt children who have come from poverty-stricken backgrounds; such children are likely unfamiliar with the luxury of being able to obtain food whenever they feel hunger and may worry about lack of food. To avoid such stress, parents can allow their children to keep healthy snacks or small food items in their rooms or in a personal backpack at all times. In addition to personal adoption issues, such as those mentioned here, parents may also run into legal obstacles at some point. Such situations can cause stress levels to soar. A great asset to have on hand at such times is an experienced family law attorney who is well-versed in domestic or international adoption laws and procedures.


